What Is Narcissistic Abuse? Narcissistic abuse is a form of psychological and emotional manipulation used by individuals with narcissistic traits to control, degrade, and exploit others. Unlike physical abuse, which leaves visible scars, narcissistic abuse is often subtle and insidious, leaving deep emotional wounds that can be difficult to recognize. Here are seven key aspects of narcissistic abuse: 1. Manipulation and Gaslighting – A narcissist twists reality, denies things they said or did, a