When someone tells you they’re not ready for a relationship, it’s important to listen and take their words at face value. It might be tempting to think that with enough time or the right kind of attention, they might change their mind. But here’s the thing: waiting around for someone to become ready not only stalls your life but also places undue pressure on them—a situation that’s unfair to both of you. It’s tough, no doubt about it. Acknowledging that the person you’re interested in won’t be a